Do you feel like you can’t hold a conversation with anyone?
Do you feel like you can have a better social life with nofap that you have right now?
All you need to do is to power up your mind. Nofap can help you with that. You can have a better social life with Nofap.
What we don’t realize while on our fapping streak is that we need to be behind closed doors to masturbate. If you PMO 2 to 3 times a day then you need to be inside your room and be alone. If you continue to isolate yourselves and continue with this behavior then it is obvious that you will lack social skills.
What Nofap teaches you, is to be confident in your skin. When you talk to a girl and ask her out on a date, you know that there is not a secret pile of DVDs under your bed or a hidden “Study Material” folder on your computer. You will feel confident in yourself. If you are comfortable with who you are then people will be comfortable with you. It all starts with you.
A better social life with NoFap starts with quitting PMO. Quitting PMO may take time because it is tough. You’ll relapse here and there but don’t get disheartened and don’t quit. Nobody did it on the first shot. Everybody relapses, don’t worry about it. If you quit porn then you will feel that you don’t have to stay in a room isolating yourself from the entire world and play video games all day. Suddenly, the outside world will start to look more tempting to you. By going out more and more you will get better at it and your social skills will improve.
We all can admit that we are not pros when it comes to sex. We’ve all had our awkward sexual encounter. This takes a toll on our confidence. Some people think that dating is not for them and they quit. If you keep being social and continue dating then your sexual anxiety will reduce. You’ll start to convince yourself that you deserve to have a partner too. This will improve your social situation and the T hormone in your body will increase and make you feel better about yourself.
Dopamine – Better Social Life With NoFap
Dopamine plays a very important role in your social life. Low dopamine levels will affect your confidence and self-esteem. After you fap continuously for years, your testosterone levels will go down. Testosterone levels are directly related to your confidence level. You will not be able to muster up the courage to walk up to a girl and talk.
“Gary Wilson, a past professor of anatomy at the Oregon university spoke at an independent TEDx Talk video last year claiming that Porn is highly addictive because it causes the brain to become desensitized to Dopamine.”
After years of fapping, your dopamine receptors get low in number. You will have to have a high amount of stimulation to enjoy. Normal porn will not work for you anymore. That means your brain will ask for more dopamine. The only way to get more dopamine will be watching more Porn.
This all leads to more fapping. Fapping makes you complacent and satisfied. If you can get satisfied by a couple of mouse clicks then why would you go out and socialize with people?
Once you stop fapping, your dopamine levels will take some to get back to normal. When you take up this challenge, you will face a little bit of depression in the first two weeks. But, don’t despair after two weeks your depression will fade away and once you cross 30 days you will feel a childlike bliss. Your confidence will start to rise. You will feel more energetic.
People have reported that once they crossed a certain number of days of NOFap they felt an urge to talk to people. They said that “I would smile at strangers and strike up a conversation with a complete stranger in the Starbucks queue”
What does this signify?
This signifies that people on Nofap are hardwiring their brain and are on a Porn withdrawal. You will start to socialize and want to talk more with the people around you. There will be times when you will find yourself in a deep conversation with your friends. It is proof that you can get a better social life with NoFap.
If you swear off porn, you will see little but significant changes in your life. You will find that it was Porn which was feeding your social anxiety and you will substitute online fantasies with a conversation with real women. Soon, you will start doing the unthinkable. You will have a mindful conversation with your friends and even strangers.
To Wrap it Up
Better social life with NoFap is possible. All you have to do is muster all your courage and try not to fap for at least 90 days. You will see a tremendous change in your life. You will see that you have more energy, more motivation, testosterone, more concentration, less brain fog and much more.
NoFap can change your life and according to a lot of Youtubers, it already has. They claim that they got so much motivation and from that motivation a sense of direction to achieve great things in life. They went from a dead-end job to having their own business.
So, calm yourself and quit PMO forever.
Be Strong. Stay Blessed.
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